Once in a Lifetime...hopefully.

You hear the older generation people say, "Marriage is sacred...it happens once in a lifetime..." blah blah blah and some other related words of wisdom.

*rolls eyes*

Apparently, in this world or century that is inhabited by modern and younger generation ppl, marriage is treated kind of like 'oh-just-another-event-in-my-life'... No big deal...

That's how I felt after attending my mum's aunt's grandson's wedding dinner (I know...the relationship is abit far, but still, we are considered one BIG family).

Anyway, that's not the main point.

The main point is... the bride, the one who should be feeling as the luckiest woman in the whole wide world, wasnt very happy. In fact, when we reached the hotel restaurant, I saw her sobbing and sulking outside with her group of girlfriends, obviously in a bad mood (I think shalyn will lose to her the title of BMQ-Bad Mood Queen)...

??????!!!!!!!

It's her big night! Why was she showing tantrum? *tsk tsk*

Throughout the first half of the dinner, the bride's face can't be any darker than Bao Qing Tian.

It was obvious she's veri bu shuang when she got on stage to cut the cake, light the candles and take photos with her hubby, who is my very far distance cousin (I suppose).

Haiyo... *shakes head*

This is one wedding dinner that didnt showcase a happy and xing fu bride.

To add on to the 'uniqueness' of the dinner, I found out from momsie (we gossiped a little during the waiting time for those latecomers) that she's only 18 and is already pregnant for 5 months. The husband is only 22 yrs old. *TSK TSK*

In other words, both are damn young to be tied down.

I'm not going to curse their marriage here or anything along the line, but I can guarantee such relationships are going to be tough to maintain. Lots of conflicts will definitely occur. Quarrels will be inevitable. So what then?

Divorce lo.

100% chop + guarantee.

It's not I look down on them. But seriously lo...

Imagine if they can live til 80....both will have to face each other for 60 years before sayonara forever leh!!!

Now that's fricking long and terrible to think about.

I'm sidetracking here, let me go back...

What I'm saying is, since it's your marriage and wedding dinner that happen once in a lifetime (I hope!), can't you be happier and smile more sincerely?

Everyone took the pain and effort to turn up for the dinner to see a sulky bride meh?

I dun think so.

*haiz*

I'm just so pissed with the youngsters nowadays. They are treating marriage like child's play.

And to think that I actually spent my ultimate precious time to go and give my blessings but in return get to see an upset bride, it's so not worth it. I'd rather stay home and bless my BeBe and complete my essays and study.

*haiz*

On a happier note, at least the food and red wine was nice. Luuuuurve the mango pudding. And my uncles were all very funny. Not to mention the bridesgroom has got several yan dao friends... *heehee*

But still, I'd rather eat maggie mee and watch S.W.A.T. at home. *smirks*